How great would it be to fully inhabit your body and love yourself exactly the way you are?
As a Somatic Sex Educator I can help you find your own way to an embodied pleasurable relationship with yourself and others.
From https://www.somaticsexeducators.com/sometic-sex-education/
Somatic sex educators teach through body experiences designed to nurture, deepen or awaken the sensual self. These experiences can include coaching in breath, movement, body awareness, boundary-setting, communication, anatomy, sensate focus, massage, erotic trance and other body-based teaching about sex. Uniquely in the professions, we are trained to do genital and anal touch for education, healing and pleasure. We touch in ways that assist students in developing presence within the body, opening interior awareness, and learning how the body can feel more and more alive.
Somatic Sex Education is a wonderful way to address all kinds of sexual problems, ranging from premature ejaculation to not being able to orgasm readily. Couples can learn to navigate sexual differences and explore new erotic possibilities with body-based learning and guided practice.
Limits to pleasure are ubiquitous in a culture that shames sexuality and fails to teach us how to honor and celebrate erotic energy. Sexual wounding becomes embedded in the body’s tissues and responses. Somatic Sex Education can assist you in expanding the pleasure that is possible. (READ MORE from this essay by Caffyn Jesse)
Each person is unique, so your session will be collaboratively customized for you and your needs. I work from a place of honesty, saying when I don’t know something. I have 9 years of passionate personal study, learning from many well respected teachers & leaders in the field of sexuality. Learning about sexuality in relation to topics such as: anatomy, lifestyles, relationships, politics, trauma, culture, shame, sexual health, gender, toys & tools, and more which will help inform our sessions.
Sessions may include:
- breathing
- placement of attention
- talking about sex, desire, pleasure and all things related
- boundaries work
- conscious touch
- scar tissue remediation
- intimacy exercises
- movement
- sounding
Every session includes attention to breath and the body. In session, you will often receive deep witnessing and loving support as you explore your body, your pleasure, and your relationships. We can use table work to help you learn more about your body and its potential. You can expect complete focus, presence and attention during your session.
As a professional, I will explain and maintain boundaries, creating a supported and relaxed environment for healing. Our work moves at the pace you set; the session is led by you with some support from me. You are consulted with verbal communication every step of the session, and you are always in choice about what happens. Sexological bodywork never includes sex or sexual interactions between client and practitioner.
“The interesting thing about this work is that while you start out to change your sexuality, you may find that your entire life open up and become juicy and fuller as the erotic energy and sexual charge are liberated.” – Pavani, CSB (emancipating-sexuality.com)
Benefits include:
- more pleasure
- more fun in bed
- more confidence with a partner
- get out of thinking & into feeling
- greater relaxation
- enhanced pleasure, joy, vitality from sex
- more orgasmicity
- integration of body & mind
- connectedness
- skills as a wonderful lover
- ability to maintain prolonged erotic states
- clearer understanding of your desire
- better communication tools
- removal of sexual blocks
- deepened capacity for intimacy
- clearer boundaries
Change happens in the body, often quickly, and there is an emphasis on mindful integration. It is a practice just like going to the gym to become stronger, we build skills with each session which might include homework or homeplay! How many sessions does it take to become fit? How much pleasure are you willing to work for?